6 Reasons to Come to Yoga as the US Starts a War :(

6 Reasons to Come to Yoga as the US Starts a War :(

Photo of terrifying destruction in Iran caused by the US.

Signs of spring wink and smile at me in harsh contrast to the anger and heartbreak I feel, grappling with the reality of the US instigating war in Iran, domino effecting so much unfolding violence. I’m heartbroken, devastated, and so mad. This has come on top of so much else (eclipse week hiii!)… it’s just so much to hold.

When chaos hits the fan, I’m especially grateful for yoga, but also for rad, sweet yoga community – for the solidarity and support that happens when people like us gather to practice together.

Saturday I felt really fractured as I started class, but being able to show up with my grief and fear, no grand analysis or answers, but to come together for practice and be able to be real – that was quenching for some inner thirst. We need relationships and spaces like that, where we can show up unmasked, honest, and turn towards the suffering in our selves and the world with presence and kindness together, alongside others.

Some yoga spaces keep to an (often unsaid) rule to not bring the ‘political’ into the space. I am glad to the co-creating sangha space with you, where we can acknowledge what’s raw, what’s up, knowing we are not separate from the conditions we are in.

We are in this mess together, and so we are part of the solutions, together.

It’s been strengthening this week to log on to the zoom for yoga, and have a shared space to face it together, talk some, breathe, feel the feelings, re-root, and break the spell of feeling alone in it all.

 When something ‘works’ I like to get curious, reverse engineer it, find some breadcrumbs to follow next time I’m lost in the dark. I’ve gathered a few to share with you:

Here’s 6 reasons to

COME TO YOGA…

…ideally, with me, and soon! during these intense times. 

1. Remembering Our Power

Yoga’s tools were forged to help us meet moments like these. Perhaps our souls too, are alive in these times on purpose. Here to hold the line, turn towards suffering with compassion and solidarity, here to fight the good fight.

Like Arjuna gazing out to the battlefield, we know to not act is also an action; all our actions have consequences. Let this be a reminder that we always, as long as we are alive, have power, and that how we live life is influencing the future. Our thoughts, words actions are seeds planted. May we find courage in that we are continuing to build towards a better future, take care of our selves and each other, no matter what.

On the level of the nervous system, functional asana directly allows us to rewire our patterns. This means, more agency, less fear-based autopilot. Yoga is literally a practice of staying grounded and present so that you can respond instead of reactto what arises with love and skill.

Asana is a way to reclaim our power, to re-center, sharpen the blade of our mind, soften our heart, and do the needful.

Call your reps, speak up, discern what is your offering, yours to do.

As Magi said in Fern Gully, “We all have power, and when we share it, it grows…”

Practicing asana and then feeling how much better you feel after is a psycho-somatic reminder that you can affect positive change. At a time when things can feel hopelessly out of control, reminding ourselves and each each other where we dohave power, where we can take action, can in an of itself be a nourishing, active resistance.

meme by Avery Kalapa about yoga resilience against fascism showing dragons and fighters<br />

 

 

2. Avoid Numbing Out, Overwhelm and Apathy: Bolster Your Capacity with Real Rest

Exhaustion may be most obvious in your body, but it affects your mind and your senses too – and these jnanendriyas have a huge effect on how you feel, and how you perceive reality. Deep, real rest for your body, mind, and emotions replenishes like nothing else – and even if you’re someone who has a hard time relaxing, you CAN access deep, healing rest with practice and the right support.

My Tuesday night Restorative classes are an amazing, accessible resource! When you give your body and mind the time to really let go, soften, and melt, it’s miraculous how much can shift. The poses, guided relaxation, and breath explorations in these classes can be life changing.

With regular practice, deep rest creates a powerful shield of protection. It re-connects you to the inner wellspring of vitality and capacity. Letting go is key to creating space for the goodness ready to emerge inside you. Practicing letting go somatically is a way to access soothing relief on the days you need it most.

 

3. Strength and Stability 

…fortify your inner reserves. Specifically, the joint stability we explore in every Iyengar Yoga class I teach has an immediate positive impact on your sense of being grounded, confident, secure, and able to stand tall on your own two legs.

Physical stability directly offers us emotional stability.

The people pushing for war use fear to coerce the public. By practicing asana for stability, we can stand strong against fear mongering, and have more energy to take action to disrupt harm.

Avery Kalapa, trans Iyengar Yoga teacher, demonstrating virabhadrasana 1, warrior 1, with props, teaching asana on zoom.

All types of asana can be stabilizing. Forward bends soothe your adrenal glands. Inversions drench your inner body with fresh circulation, refresh your brain and stabilize your emotions through hormonal balance. Twists cleanse away tension and free your lungs and digestive system. Chest opening is a natural antidepressant. Savasana allows you to integrate, metabolize, it creates a fresh start. These practices supercharge you, and this goodness is within reach! 

4. Anti-isolation

Practicing yoga pushes back against the energy of “divide and conquer.” Staying connected to your body helps you stay connected to life itself. When you are in your body, connected to the earth, and in the field practicing with others – even online, even on demand! – you are bathing your system in the nourishment of knowing you are not alone.

Your story is part of a much bigger story. You don’t have to carry what’s heavy alone. Our embodied presence, authenticity, action and compassion become stronger as we align with yoga’s ethics of non-violence, ahimsa, and satya, truth. Where we are connected, it’s easier to follow through on responsibilities, show up to care for our selves, close ones, activism, work for a freer world. Yoga gives you the juice to align your actions towards safety and peace in our international community as human beings, all sharing one precious planet.

 

yoga meme by Avery Kalapa about reclaiming power

 

5. Keep Your Mind Clear, Wide Perspective

Albert Einstein famously said, “no problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.” Right now is an especially good time to be clear-headed, have space for perspective, and be present to what is emerging. Attention is an also a form of power. How can we stay informed, without drowning?

Yoga offers so many ways to create space between you and your thoughts; you and the external world. Patanjali says much of our suffering comes from our tendency to loose our Self in the mind’s distortions (vrittis). When we are less entangled, we are more clear, critically discerning, understanding.

Continued to notice, interrogate injustice, and speak up. These forms of sadhana – committed practice- nourish your spirit too. Pranayama and asana cleanse our energetic channels (nadis), but ethical actions to disrupt harm and offer care are also cleansing and healing. 

Studying yoga philosophy with friends can be incredibly uplifting and open your mind to other possibilities. We have access to beautiful, practical teachings in the Yoga Sutras and other sacred texts that have been around for thousands of years before AI, attention algorithms, and the current structures that govern information and knowledge. What’s in there?! SO much cool stuff…

By building new neural pathways through somatic asana practice, mindfulness, and also by exploring new concepts of what is real, we can continue to increase our capacity to face what is happening right now while keeping a sense of long-range vision, possibility, perspective, and grounding. 

 

6. Long-term Resilience

Consistent yoga practice builds long-term health and resilience. These systemic problems are part of a long arc, and require long-term solutions.

I am holding a vision of you being healthy, mobile, active and effective for many, many years to come! As we nurture health in our bones, muscles, joints, nerves, vital organs, we strengthen our ability to respond, skillfully and effectively to all that life brings, for the long haul. And, it helps us find the joy along the way! Which is such good medicine, too. 

It’s hard to show up for what you care about when you’re exhausted and in pain. Tending to your body and mind with skillful yoga practice is a way to invest in all that’s good in this life. It’s a gift to everything you are connected to. 

You are a gift. You are an essential piece of this puzzle!

May you be so held, nourished, and find happiness along this winding path through it all. 

 

 

“In your discipline, if doubt comes, let it come. You do your work, and let doubt go about its work. Let’s see which one gives up first!”

– BKS Iyengar

 

Photo from 1990 of Avery and their family at a "Peace in the Middle East" protest in Washington DC. We drove 5 hours from our home in West Virginia to attend.

Photo, above, from 1990 of Avery and their family at a “Peace in the Middle East” protest in Washington DC. We drove 5 hours from our home in West Virginia to attend.  

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Thanks for reading. The article above was shared via my newsletter March 6th, 2026. CLICK HERE to join my newsletter. I’d love to keep in touch.

Below are some updates you may be interested in. Thanks for reading, and thank you for being here with me. I am envisioning you and everyone you love happy, peaceful, safe, and well.

 

Updates & Opportunities

 

I recently read people follow through on their goals 95% more when they have an accountability buddy.

We’ve added a 2 awesome additions to Sadhana Support Collective, my online yoga membership.

If you’ve been thinking of joining or re-joining Sadhana Support, now is a great time!

In addition to unlimited livestream classes, on demand, weekly inspiration, monthly Philosophy sessions, and Yoga Q&A, SSC members can now access even more goodness, for no additional cost.

Introducing….

Sadhana Support Collective Yoga Accountability Club graphic

 

 

Yoga Accountability Club is a gentle, practical way to help you follow through on your yoga practice intentions. We follow the moon’s cycle. You can join for a single round, or for consecutive rounds. We’re currently in our first month and already it’s been a fun, meaningful, and supportive. It’s FREE for members of Sadhana Support Collective.

Because some of us are going through everything the world is going through while also being trans, we’re also adding in a monthly community connect for Trans, Non-binary, and Gender Non-Conforming SSC members. Space to vent, laugh, relate, connect feels especially important right now, and trans* yoga community is so precious.

Banner for trans community connections for members of Sadhana Support Collective

 

 

Remember – you can easily tap into the goodness with me anytime. Drop in to a zoom class and enjoy being together live on zoom. Or, there’s literally over 1000 super sweet new on demand replays to help you re-root, relax, open up, energize, and feel better.

My books are open for private sessions, too.

This month’s in person Restorative Workshop at Bhava is sold out, but save the date for April 4th! Because of the high demand, we may shift that topic towards being a Restorative Workshop as well. Stay tuned!

SAVE THE DATE

I’m also offering a FREE online workshop: Better Posture as Self Love for Trans Folks and Their Friends, on March 31st.This fun, affirming workshop on Trans Day of Visibility will include a home practice sequence, cool anomy presentation, and the option to stay for Restorative class after.

Come explore a practical and illuminative framework for tadasana, how to stand tall and stable within our own selves, what gets in the way, and we will explore a simple sequence you can do to improve your posture, have less pain, better breath, and feel more confident and open in your chest. I’ll let you know as soon as registration opens!

April 1st, registration will open for my workshop in Denver, Oct 2, 3, 4th: Awake, Relaxed, Embodied. There’s a limited number of early bird spots. Plan to join us this fall, this will be an incredible weekend.

This article was shared via Avery’s newsletter March 6th, 2026.

Courage, Failure, Revolutionary Love: Come rest, honey, it’s a big time.

Courage, Failure, Revolutionary Love: Come rest, honey, it’s a big time.

This piece was published in my newsletter Feb 17, 2026, and so many folks wrote back appreciating its message. I want to make it available to everyone, so here it is. These themes are still relevant for our current times. Enjoy! And thanks for reading. – Avery

Come to yoga? Restorative Yoga with me on Tuesday evenings on zoom is a deeply relaxing way to resource your body, mind, and heart. It’s possibly one of the best weeks ever to come to class with me. Why? It’s a biiiig time. Maybe this is a week where some extra grounding, energy, mindfulness and embodied care might be just the thing.

The holy days are stacked, amongst them today’s Lunar New Year: we’ve shed our snakeskin and now a new path forward is revealed, awaiting our galloping hoofbeats and heartbeats! Today’s also an eclipse, not to mention this week’s other major astrology. Neptune and Saturn are changing signs, their forces are joining at 0° Aries. This has been called a ‘karmic reset.’

But you don’t have to tune in to the esoteric to know we are in a wild time of systemic disintegration, collapse, and change. It’s a time to take courageous aligned action; it’s also a time to rest. A time to prioritize the things that help you feel nourished and clear headed. These things are not a binary.

There’s an energy of coming together to meet what is arising, finding new ways to be in the movement of life. Humans are captivated by people who rise to do incredible things.

But we are also captivated by failure.

I have been moved, observing Olympic skater Ilia Malinin, and am curious why. Maybe we like to see others rise to greatness, but also are drawn to witness people’s failures because we long to see that we can strive to do something radically courageous, “fail,” and still be loved, still belong. Our wounds around exile and belonging run deep. To see someone take a big risk, and even when things don’t go the way they wished, that they can still be celebrated, loved, as all of it is taken into a bigger context of growth and exploration. I want that celebration and safety for you and me. And Ilia, of course.

This connects to the sacred risk of fighting the good fight for a more just, liberated world. The risk of believing it’s possible enough to live into it day by day, breath by breath.

Shoutout Jesse Jackson, rest in powerful peace. To witness such endurance of loving action, work, and the ripple effects of that willingness to continue to show up, stokes the fire in my heart. Tapas, to use the Sanskrit term.

“Life without tapas is like a heart without love.”

– BKS Iyengar

 I’ve been inspired by the courageous loving action of communities coming together to resist ICE in Minneapolis. I’ve been inspired by my students in class, making beautiful connections in their asana practice and how it’s empowering the good work in their lives.

I just returned home from co-teaching the Queer Couples Yoga Retreat in Taos, and my god, such a deeply gorgeous, inspiring time that was. Queer love is truly medicine for our world. The tender, brave, healing that unfolded – and the joy that this allowed – was something powerful to witness, something strong and real! (Insert your fave Heated Rivalry fan art here.)

Years ago Jack Halberstam‘s book The Queer Art of Failure illuminated new space for me. Maybe it’s worth failing, if it means we get to build new forms of success. Maybe this moment we’re in, and how our yoga practice can help us meet it, is like that. We can transcend the old limitations by orienting towards a possibility of love and liberation beyond what we could have previously imagined.

Maybe we can be OK with ‘failing’ at yoga – of what we think it should look and feel like – even as we continue to practice. And through that practice, new possibilities are revealed that wash away the old ideas of success, and reveal something so much better.

Maybe in being willing to fail, we become free to glimpse the bigger horizon. Perhaps that willingness to have courage, to continue to tend the garden of possibility in the world, our lives, our nervous systems – IS the true victory.

I am always working towards that capacity in my own work and life. With the creation of anything heartfelt, there’s always risk. It’s vulnerable and messy to create. And it’s so important.

 

How can we stay open to the dream and cultivation of new possibilities, happiness, peace, a better world, even as destruction and injustice the very fabric of what we know is real?

 

“We are the architects of our self-care… of meeting our own needs. We are the architects of our courage, which is a major part of how we take care of ourselves and each other.”

Chani Nicholas

Every time you get on your yoga mat to practice, you are investing in – and building in real time – the possibility that you can feel better, clear out of the old patterns, pain, and exhaustion, and gently shift the scattered mind towards clarity and calm.

Through this, you resource not only your own life, but your activism, art, generosity, your ability to stand for truth.

To practice yoga strengthens the muscle of faith, faith in ourselves, and in our ability to create positive change.

All of it – the beauty and challenges, the profound and the mundane – all are mediums for our liberation… if we choose to engage with it that way.

Maybe the practice is the re-membering…

In Sadhana Support Collective this month we’re working with sutra 2.1, kriya yoga, the yoga of action. Maybe all that presents itself…

  • is fuel for our tapas, our fiery devoted willingness …
  • is the material for insight, svadhyaya
  • is an opportunity to strengthen our faith and practice surrender, Ishvara pranidhana.

If you’ve been meaning to make more space in you life for yoga, come. Come to class this week. Drop in, or join Sadhana Support Collective. We’re exploring heart opening! We’ve also started a new Yoga Accountability Club in SSC. Come connect…

It’s never too late to explore being more embodied. It’s never too late to regain mobility, support your ability to breathe freely, and have a more open chest, more stable joints, a more compassionate relationship with yourself.

It’s never too late to build a better posture, through alignment and functional strength, which not only helps reduce pain and injury, but also directly helps you feel more confident and emotionally resilient.

Yoga alignment will help you stand tall, be more broad shouldered, and have more energy, since the breath and vital organs will have more internal space, ease, circulation, and nourishment.

If you’ve felt for yourself how your body, mind and emotions are connected, it will make sense why this in turn helps diminish heavy emotions, depression, exhaustion, and low self worth.

The source of courage and love is within you.

Sometimes a storm needs to sweep the river bed clear, so some new energy can flow. Your body is such a powerful entry point to decompression, and a fresh start.

 Remember – you can easily tap into the goodness with me anytime. Drop in to a zoom class and enjoy the accountability and focus that comes with being together live on zoom.

Or, there’s literally over 1000 super sweet new on demand replays to help you return to balance: energize, restore, awaken to the comforting clarity of embodied presence.

My books are open for private sessions, too.

Thanks for reading, and thank you for being here with me. I am envisioning you and everyone you love happy, peaceful, safe, and well.