6 Reasons to Come to Yoga as the US Starts a War :(

6 Reasons to Come to Yoga as the US Starts a War :(

Photo of terrifying destruction in Iran caused by the US.

Signs of spring wink and smile at me in harsh contrast to the anger and heartbreak I feel, grappling with the reality of the US instigating war in Iran, domino effecting so much unfolding violence. I’m heartbroken, devastated, and so mad. This has come on top of so much else (eclipse week hiii!)… it’s just so much to hold.

When chaos hits the fan, I’m especially grateful for yoga, but also for rad, sweet yoga community – for the solidarity and support that happens when people like us gather to practice together.

Saturday I felt really fractured as I started class, but being able to show up with my grief and fear, no grand analysis or answers, but to come together for practice and be able to be real – that was quenching for some inner thirst. We need relationships and spaces like that, where we can show up unmasked, honest, and turn towards the suffering in our selves and the world with presence and kindness together, alongside others.

Some yoga spaces keep to an (often unsaid) rule to not bring the ‘political’ into the space. I am glad to the co-creating sangha space with you, where we can acknowledge what’s raw, what’s up, knowing we are not separate from the conditions we are in.

We are in this mess together, and so we are part of the solutions, together.

It’s been strengthening this week to log on to the zoom for yoga, and have a shared space to face it together, talk some, breathe, feel the feelings, re-root, and break the spell of feeling alone in it all.

 When something ‘works’ I like to get curious, reverse engineer it, find some breadcrumbs to follow next time I’m lost in the dark. I’ve gathered a few to share with you:

Here’s 6 reasons to

COME TO YOGA…

…ideally, with me, and soon! during these intense times. 

1. Remembering Our Power

Yoga’s tools were forged to help us meet moments like these. Perhaps our souls too, are alive in these times on purpose. Here to hold the line, turn towards suffering with compassion and solidarity, here to fight the good fight.

Like Arjuna gazing out to the battlefield, we know to not act is also an action; all our actions have consequences. Let this be a reminder that we always, as long as we are alive, have power, and that how we live life is influencing the future. Our thoughts, words actions are seeds planted. May we find courage in that we are continuing to build towards a better future, take care of our selves and each other, no matter what.

On the level of the nervous system, functional asana directly allows us to rewire our patterns. This means, more agency, less fear-based autopilot. Yoga is literally a practice of staying grounded and present so that you can respond instead of reactto what arises with love and skill.

Asana is a way to reclaim our power, to re-center, sharpen the blade of our mind, soften our heart, and do the needful.

Call your reps, speak up, discern what is your offering, yours to do.

As Magi said in Fern Gully, “We all have power, and when we share it, it grows…”

Practicing asana and then feeling how much better you feel after is a psycho-somatic reminder that you can affect positive change. At a time when things can feel hopelessly out of control, reminding ourselves and each each other where we dohave power, where we can take action, can in an of itself be a nourishing, active resistance.

meme by Avery Kalapa about yoga resilience against fascism showing dragons and fighters<br />

 

 

2. Avoid Numbing Out, Overwhelm and Apathy: Bolster Your Capacity with Real Rest

Exhaustion may be most obvious in your body, but it affects your mind and your senses too – and these jnanendriyas have a huge effect on how you feel, and how you perceive reality. Deep, real rest for your body, mind, and emotions replenishes like nothing else – and even if you’re someone who has a hard time relaxing, you CAN access deep, healing rest with practice and the right support.

My Tuesday night Restorative classes are an amazing, accessible resource! When you give your body and mind the time to really let go, soften, and melt, it’s miraculous how much can shift. The poses, guided relaxation, and breath explorations in these classes can be life changing.

With regular practice, deep rest creates a powerful shield of protection. It re-connects you to the inner wellspring of vitality and capacity. Letting go is key to creating space for the goodness ready to emerge inside you. Practicing letting go somatically is a way to access soothing relief on the days you need it most.

 

3. Strength and Stability 

…fortify your inner reserves. Specifically, the joint stability we explore in every Iyengar Yoga class I teach has an immediate positive impact on your sense of being grounded, confident, secure, and able to stand tall on your own two legs.

Physical stability directly offers us emotional stability.

The people pushing for war use fear to coerce the public. By practicing asana for stability, we can stand strong against fear mongering, and have more energy to take action to disrupt harm.

Avery Kalapa, trans Iyengar Yoga teacher, demonstrating virabhadrasana 1, warrior 1, with props, teaching asana on zoom.

All types of asana can be stabilizing. Forward bends soothe your adrenal glands. Inversions drench your inner body with fresh circulation, refresh your brain and stabilize your emotions through hormonal balance. Twists cleanse away tension and free your lungs and digestive system. Chest opening is a natural antidepressant. Savasana allows you to integrate, metabolize, it creates a fresh start. These practices supercharge you, and this goodness is within reach! 

4. Anti-isolation

Practicing yoga pushes back against the energy of “divide and conquer.” Staying connected to your body helps you stay connected to life itself. When you are in your body, connected to the earth, and in the field practicing with others – even online, even on demand! – you are bathing your system in the nourishment of knowing you are not alone.

Your story is part of a much bigger story. You don’t have to carry what’s heavy alone. Our embodied presence, authenticity, action and compassion become stronger as we align with yoga’s ethics of non-violence, ahimsa, and satya, truth. Where we are connected, it’s easier to follow through on responsibilities, show up to care for our selves, close ones, activism, work for a freer world. Yoga gives you the juice to align your actions towards safety and peace in our international community as human beings, all sharing one precious planet.

 

yoga meme by Avery Kalapa about reclaiming power

 

5. Keep Your Mind Clear, Wide Perspective

Albert Einstein famously said, “no problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.” Right now is an especially good time to be clear-headed, have space for perspective, and be present to what is emerging. Attention is an also a form of power. How can we stay informed, without drowning?

Yoga offers so many ways to create space between you and your thoughts; you and the external world. Patanjali says much of our suffering comes from our tendency to loose our Self in the mind’s distortions (vrittis). When we are less entangled, we are more clear, critically discerning, understanding.

Continued to notice, interrogate injustice, and speak up. These forms of sadhana – committed practice- nourish your spirit too. Pranayama and asana cleanse our energetic channels (nadis), but ethical actions to disrupt harm and offer care are also cleansing and healing. 

Studying yoga philosophy with friends can be incredibly uplifting and open your mind to other possibilities. We have access to beautiful, practical teachings in the Yoga Sutras and other sacred texts that have been around for thousands of years before AI, attention algorithms, and the current structures that govern information and knowledge. What’s in there?! SO much cool stuff…

By building new neural pathways through somatic asana practice, mindfulness, and also by exploring new concepts of what is real, we can continue to increase our capacity to face what is happening right now while keeping a sense of long-range vision, possibility, perspective, and grounding. 

 

6. Long-term Resilience

Consistent yoga practice builds long-term health and resilience. These systemic problems are part of a long arc, and require long-term solutions.

I am holding a vision of you being healthy, mobile, active and effective for many, many years to come! As we nurture health in our bones, muscles, joints, nerves, vital organs, we strengthen our ability to respond, skillfully and effectively to all that life brings, for the long haul. And, it helps us find the joy along the way! Which is such good medicine, too. 

It’s hard to show up for what you care about when you’re exhausted and in pain. Tending to your body and mind with skillful yoga practice is a way to invest in all that’s good in this life. It’s a gift to everything you are connected to. 

You are a gift. You are an essential piece of this puzzle!

May you be so held, nourished, and find happiness along this winding path through it all. 

 

 

“In your discipline, if doubt comes, let it come. You do your work, and let doubt go about its work. Let’s see which one gives up first!”

– BKS Iyengar

 

Photo from 1990 of Avery and their family at a "Peace in the Middle East" protest in Washington DC. We drove 5 hours from our home in West Virginia to attend.

Photo, above, from 1990 of Avery and their family at a “Peace in the Middle East” protest in Washington DC. We drove 5 hours from our home in West Virginia to attend.  

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Below are some updates you may be interested in. Thanks for reading, and thank you for being here with me. I am envisioning you and everyone you love happy, peaceful, safe, and well.

 

Updates & Opportunities

 

I recently read people follow through on their goals 95% more when they have an accountability buddy.

We’ve added a 2 awesome additions to Sadhana Support Collective, my online yoga membership.

If you’ve been thinking of joining or re-joining Sadhana Support, now is a great time!

In addition to unlimited livestream classes, on demand, weekly inspiration, monthly Philosophy sessions, and Yoga Q&A, SSC members can now access even more goodness, for no additional cost.

Introducing….

Sadhana Support Collective Yoga Accountability Club graphic

 

 

Yoga Accountability Club is a gentle, practical way to help you follow through on your yoga practice intentions. We follow the moon’s cycle. You can join for a single round, or for consecutive rounds. We’re currently in our first month and already it’s been a fun, meaningful, and supportive. It’s FREE for members of Sadhana Support Collective.

Because some of us are going through everything the world is going through while also being trans, we’re also adding in a monthly community connect for Trans, Non-binary, and Gender Non-Conforming SSC members. Space to vent, laugh, relate, connect feels especially important right now, and trans* yoga community is so precious.

Banner for trans community connections for members of Sadhana Support Collective

 

 

Remember – you can easily tap into the goodness with me anytime. Drop in to a zoom class and enjoy being together live on zoom. Or, there’s literally over 1000 super sweet new on demand replays to help you re-root, relax, open up, energize, and feel better.

My books are open for private sessions, too.

This month’s in person Restorative Workshop at Bhava is sold out, but save the date for April 4th! Because of the high demand, we may shift that topic towards being a Restorative Workshop as well. Stay tuned!

SAVE THE DATE

I’m also offering a FREE online workshop: Better Posture as Self Love for Trans Folks and Their Friends, on March 31st.This fun, affirming workshop on Trans Day of Visibility will include a home practice sequence, cool anomy presentation, and the option to stay for Restorative class after.

Come explore a practical and illuminative framework for tadasana, how to stand tall and stable within our own selves, what gets in the way, and we will explore a simple sequence you can do to improve your posture, have less pain, better breath, and feel more confident and open in your chest. I’ll let you know as soon as registration opens!

April 1st, registration will open for my workshop in Denver, Oct 2, 3, 4th: Awake, Relaxed, Embodied. There’s a limited number of early bird spots. Plan to join us this fall, this will be an incredible weekend.

This article was shared via Avery’s newsletter March 6th, 2026.

5 ways Yoga Asana Can Help Regulate Your Nervous System Safely and Effectively

5 ways Yoga Asana Can Help Regulate Your Nervous System Safely and Effectively

What is the nervous system and why should you care if yours is regulated?

Whew… Where’s the pressure release valve? From climate crisis to rising fascism, our world is becoming increasingly complex and stressful in ways that we feel directly in our sensitive, intelligent minds and bodies. With so much beyond our control, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and exhausted. However, so much of how we experience reality, whether in the form of our thoughts, or sensations in the body, depends on our nervous system. We can cultivate regulation in our nervous system through accessible, simple practices, which hugely impact on how we feel, think, and experience life.

Nervous system regulation helps us feel less pain and anxiety, sleep and rest better, feel mentally clear and allows us to experience healthy pleasure, connection, and safety. This in turn can help us feel more agency, and empowered when facing a quickly changing and unstable world.

Skillful yoga practice is one of the best tools for nurturing nervous system regulation. 

Avery Kalapa, trans Iyengar Yoga teacher in parivritta trikonasana.

 

What’s the Nervous System?

 

The nervous system communicates messages between the brain and the rest of the body. 

There are two main subdivisions: the central nervous system and peripheral nervous system. The CNS includes the brain and spinal cord, poetically described by Guruiji BKS Iyengar as an inverted tree, with the roots in the brain, and the branches spreading down through the body. It integrates incoming sensory input and responds. The PNS includes sensory and motor receptors; the motor division includes the voluntary, or somatic, and the involuntary/ autonomic nervous system. Here, parasympathetic and sympathetic modes function as a two ends of a spectrum. 

The nervous system defaults to the known, but is also highly adaptive. 

QTBIPOC students in yoga at a retreat relaxing on yoga props in a restorative class.

Wellness relates to balance between sympathetic and parasympathetic.

 

The sympathetic nervous system causes being awake, taking action. The sympathetic nervous system controls a whole host of wonderful things without us thinking about it – heart rate, blood pressure, digestion, and more. Centered in the adrenal glands, which kick on during stress/danger; it gives us a burst of energy to fight or flight to safety. However, the brain can’t discern real danger from imagined, and in our modern world of abundant stimulation, screens, stress, and trauma, the sympathetic nervous system is often overactive, which causes anxiety, insomnia, and increased cortisol (fear hormone) which deteriorates the body. When responding to danger, biological replenish/repair cycles are paused. 

The parasympathetic nervous system, or “rest and digest” mode, brings relaxation, rest, safety. Cellular respiration increases; the higher levels of CO2 in the bloodstream in turn calm the brain. Generally, most folks benefit from practices that increase the parasympathetic response. However, too much parasympathetic is also problematic. This can look like dissociation, freeze or fawn response, or depression. 

Think of a pendulum swinging back and forth: we want a smooth, steady combination of sympathetic and parasympathetic response. This helps us feel alert and energized, yet restful and relaxed. 

Non-binary trans yoga teacher Avery Kalapa in an accessible trauma informed yoga pose that is good for back care and nervous system regulation.

Dysregulation shows up as:

  • anxiety
  • depression
  • insomnia
  • overwhelming emotions 
  • inflammation and physical pain 
  • feeling chronically unsafe, which weakens our discernment around who or what is actually dangerous 
  • distorted thinking 
  • gender dysphoria 
  • dissociation, being out of body 

Regulation helps with hormonal balance, digestion, immune health, and every vital system in our body. Because bodies seek balance, if there’s one extreme, the pendulum will often swing in the other direction too: people with anxiety often also have depression. 

The goal is to reach a place of regulation: a harmonious, sattvic state between sympathetic and parasympathetic function. 

Nervous system regulation isn’t a quick fix; it’s more like a garden that needs ongoing nurturance and tending. Many aspects of yoga involve simultaneously stimulating and calming our nervous system; this intelligent approach is much more helpful than thinking of regulation as a binary of “uppers” and “downers.”

Gaining fluency in how to regulate your nervous system is a key component for how yoga works as an effective healing modality. When we work at the level of the nervous system, yoga effectively disrupts body-brain patterns, disarms trauma and epigenetic survival mechanisms, and frees us from internalized social conditioning: personal and collective samskaras (karmic patterns).

Consistent yoga practice can be very effective, when practiced in specific ways.

Asana offers a myriad of ways to regulate. And, yoga “off the mat” includes additional ways to tend the garden of a balanced, regulated nervous system. Below I go a bit deeper into 5 key ways of working, but here’s a quick list of ways yoga can help:

 

  • feeling sensations
  • observing multiple different sensations at once
  • breath awareness: feeling passive, effortless breath in the body
  • increasing back body breath and thus adrenal circulation to pacify the sympathetic nervous system
  • extending one part of the body actively, while simultaneously relaxing another area; extra credit for feeling both at one time
  • feel your body in contact with the floor, wall, or a prop
  • deliberately moving awareness to various things in and around you
  • softening your tongue, jaw, belly, pelvic floor

You can do the above in asana, and throughout the day. Here’s some additional “off the mat” ways to help. These won’t work for everyone; see what works for you:

  • create routine and regularity with when you eat and sleep
  • reduce or take delibrate “fasts” from screens
  • seeting boundaries and honoring them
  • time in nature, being present with nature
  • asking for support 
  • interupt small harms, such as being misgendered
  • gardening, pruning, physical work with plants
  • imaginative play, crafts, or story telling games with kids (or inner children)
  • creative art or expression that prioritizes process over product
  • schedule gaps between events, meetings

Passive restorative poses may be too confrontational and agitating if someone with a trauma history is trying to relax. Standing poses against a wall can be grounding and help people orient in space, especially good if disassociation is present.

There are particular poses and breath techniques that help, but HOW you practice is just as important as what you practice. 

Avery Kalapa practicing a yoga pose named Halasana outside in New Mexico.

Here are five ways to work in yoga asana that can lead to subtle but powerful shifts in your nervous system:

 

1.  Notice sensations in your body. Practicing yoga asana can be a path to get you into your body and out of your head. Notice how sensations change over time. Spread awareness to feel two different sensations at the same time – for instance, sense your thigh muscles working and at the same time relax your jaw. 

Embodiment is powerful, particularly when two key components are in place. First, it helps to have clear, direct, doable instructions. There’s a trend in trauma informed yoga now to emphasize permission, and “doing whatever feels good.” However, if someone is out of their body or anxious, too much choice can create more anxiety, and make you feel stuck in your head, unsure of what to do.

It can be supportive and calming for a teacher to give direct instruction. But, secondly, it is also important to be in a space that uplifts one’s agency, in which you know you have permission to opt out. It’s important to consent to being led in any given asana. Classes that are too strict can exacerbate nervous system patterns signaling a sense of powerlessness. Strictness can inspire rigor, alertness and actually, care when used skillfully. But some teachers overdo it, and it feels like an environment of shame and assimilation. However, it’s unhelpful if things are too permissive and casual. 

The right combination of discipline, compassion, agency can build trust and create conditions where a teacher can help the student break free form old patterns in how they move and think, which is very healing on the level of the nervous system. Explore different teachers and methods to find what works for you.

  1. Be aware of your breath. Learn to feel the breath in your body. Just noticing your breath as it is without trying to change it sends a powerful message to the nervous system that you are safe. Full, free breathing is one of the best things you can do to regulate your nervous system. Alignment-based asana restructures the body, removing obstacles to the breath and allowing you to breathe better. 

Importantly, I’m talking about bringing attention to your breath in the context of yoga poses, rather than doing breathwork (pranayama). The breath has a very powerful effect on how we feel, but because of this power, it’s a bit like playing with fire. If you’re unskillful or aggressive in an asana, you might strain a muscle. But if you are aggressive or unskillful in working with breath, you might stir up a lot of psychological suffering. 

Working with the body is a relatively safe and accessible way to feel better. And it can prepare you to safely explore beautiful healing practices such as pranayama.

3. Realign your body. 

Alignment-based asana can decompress your spine, unload the nerves and vessels, soften the organs, create more space for the lungs and diaphragm, increase circulation to the organs and brain, and more. An attention to alignment will also help you protect your joints and increase your stability in asana.

And while functional alignment is great for reducing pain and injury in the physical the body, it is also the key to shifting the patterns in our emotions and mind. Alignment reorganizes how energy moves through the nervous system. This reorganization of energy is how asana can tangibly change the patterns to create new possibilities not only in your body, but also your mind. As we learn to be “in” our bodies, we increase our ability and capacity to feel safe. 

4. Balance your hormones. The endocrine system (hormones) and nervous system are deeply entwined. For example, in response to stress, the nervous system will kick into fight, flight, or freeze in the immediate moment, while the endocrine system will release cortisol, which will affect the body for longer.  

Certain asana help to powerfully and effectively regulate hormones. Not only can specific poses stimulate or calm hormone-producing glands, but a daily practice can over time reduce the production of stress hormones.  To calm the sympathetic, supported forward extensions like uttansana and ado mukha virasana are quieting, especially with head support, so the brain, eyes, and temples can soften. 

Chest openings for easier diaphragmatic movement and breath, such as supta baddha konasana (below), can be powerfully calming.

Avery Kalapa, a trans Iyengar yoga teacher, in reclined bound angle pose, or supta badha konasana: a restorative pose for nervous system regulation and pelvic health.

Halasana with a bench or chair supporting the root of the thighs is one of the best parasympathetic inducing poses. Any sarvangasana variation is excellent, but this is especially restful: the combination of backbody breath, jalandhara bandha position, circulation to the brain, and restful, passive decompression creates a very soothing effect. Emphasis on softening the jaw, tongue, eyes, brain with exhalation helps connect to consciously letting go. 

Observe with distance. Learn to be the “seer, not the seen.” Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras describe how we tend to identify with what we are seeing, thinking, or feeling, and through that process, get enmeshed with our experiences. Embodied yoga practice can help us connect to a deeper part of ourselves – the source of awareness. We can learn to create space between ourselves and our thoughts and emotions. We can experience them, but know that they are not us. This shift in perspective increases our capacity both to stay grounded and patient during discomfort and to be intimately present during moments of healthy pleasure and delight, which strengthens our resilience. 

This distance can paradoxically also help us feel our feelings! In life, most of us tend to avoid ‘bad’ feelings, but this avoidance can trap unprocessed events within ourselves, leading the nervous system to enact the same patterns over and over.

Through yoga practice, we are able to integrate and metabolize uncomfortable feelings such as grief and pain, and through that process, shift and release them.

This process of somatic integration frees us to be more attuned and responsive to what’s happening within and around us, and ultimately, more happy, healthy, and secure. 

Interested in experiencing how yoga can help you access nervous system regulation?

2 warm invitations:

 

Join us this April for a week long Yoga Retreat centering nervous system regualtion in a myriad of ways! Yoga, rest, community, play, crerative experession, and more.

SPRING YOGA RESET RETREAT

with Avery and Luke

Mazunte, on the Oaxacan coast of Mexico
APRIL 6-12, 2025

Check out all the juicy details here. 

 

Come to class! Join a zoom yoga class or on demand practice with Avery. Your first class is FREE!

You can filter on demand classes by searching for “nervous system regulation” in my on demand library. 

 

 

 

trans Iyengar Yoga teacher Avery Kalapa

About the Author:

Avery Kalapa (they, them) CIYT ERTYT500 YACEP is a trans yoga teacher with over 25 years experience in yoga. They run a thriving, online Yoga School called Sadhana Support Collective that offers awesome classes and inclusive healing community. Drop into class, first one’s free! 

Pratyahara and Apocalyptic Times: Reclaim the Power of Your Awareness

Pratyahara and Apocalyptic Times: Reclaim the Power of Your Awareness

Those in power who deal in the currency of harm benefit when we we are chronically overstimulated, distracted, overwhelmed.

An atmosphere of overwhelming stimulation is a strategic tool of oppression.

(So, here is your invitation to be less hard on yourself. This exhausting overwhelm is systemic and not an individual failing.

The practice of yoga offers specific techniques to contradict these traps and tendencies. We can actually train, reprogram, and un-tether the power of our minds, awareness, and bodies.

Commonly translated as SENSE WITHDRAWAL, pratyahara is the 5th limb in Patanjali’s system of yoga. It is a bridge between the more physical, relational external elements, and subtler, internal ones.

We can embody pratyahara in asana and pranayama. This is a tangible skill we can develop: reclaiming our awareness, drawing in, resting and refreshing the sense organs.

When we attune to inner listening and connection to the guidance + wisdom within, rather than being pushed and pulled by the desires and agendas of the external, we regain a sense of authorship in our life. We hold the reigns of our chariot, to reference the metaphor from the Bagavad Gita, rather than letting the wild horses of our mind and senses pull us in all directions. We can connect to the inner, deeper source of knowing, the intelligence beyond the surface mind, within.

layered illustration of a trans person in a red leather blindfold layered with orange and lavender triangles.

It’s not about escapism, but rather a sense of alertness, freshness, clarity.

AGENCY.

 Of course such practice requires discipline. Supportive counterculture community and a trusted facilitator helps too.

It is a conscious decision to unhook the senses and draw inward, to cultivate subtle inner observation. It is a key to open new doorways. Doorways within you, that will benefit the collective massively should you chose to go there.

We practice aspects of pratyahara in nearly every class I teach. Much of what we are doing is reclaiming our awareness, and learning to direct it consciously in the body and beyond, within, rather than letting it disperse into the patterns of the mind.

Body, mind, sensation.

These are powerful tools we all have for liberatory transformation.

Come practice with me!

We won’t wear kinky blindfolds like this one, but if the metaphor caught your attention enough to read about pratyahara, then sweet.

In response to these times, I’m also working on a potent new project…

SADHANA SUPPORT COLLECTIVE

Stay tuned + make sure you’re on my newsletter.

peach and black toned image of trans yoga teach Avery Kalapa in an illustration about pratyahara yoga philosophy